Well after typing this entry on my blog yesterday I decided to set up a membership on a well known free dating site in Australia.... there are several profiles advertising for girls to join couples in threesomes....so I outlined that infact my friend and I were looking for a permanent relationship with an intererestd intelligent, eloquent lady etc etc quite clear that we were hoping for something more purposeful and longer lasting than random threesomes.
24 hours later I have gone to the account to see if it has been cleared by this website and it has been made inactive.... banned I would say!!!!! Well where is the justice in that?...... Is it fine for the 20 or so other proffiles that are looking for random hookups and other profiles such as mine that will be eventually and hopefully coming clean about their being an existing partner already in the relationship once the women/men are interested and hooked? But not for a well written, intelligent profile that tells the truth right from the beginning!? Now I really wish I had done a word document so I could cut ande paste it here for all to see how decently it was all stated.
So now back to my original question are there any non-sleazy dating websites that will allow for triads?
Velvet
xxx
and you should look at
http://lovingmany.com/
and
http://www.polymatchmaker.com/
when you first sign up, you put that you are in a relationship,
and then when it asks you questions, and you show that you would like to meet others, or that you are poly, then it changes your status to available.
there are lots of sensible poly people on there, and many polys who wouldnt have labelled themselves such if it wasnt for the website.
In my experience OKCupid is the most poly-friendly website.
I have had no issues there as openly poly (northlings).
Thank you :)