Hello everyone,
We are a happy gay couple who liked to play with the occaisional visitor... up until we were asked if we were open to a 3 way relationship.
We'd never even considered it as a possibility before, we were happy to play together, but honestly we were starting to get over it, and hoping we would find a really nice guy that was compatable with us that we could hook up with from time to time.
Following the suggestion of a 3 way relationship we were initially totally confronted, this led us to find out more about the lifestyle and what it meant to us and our relationship.
As I am sure many of you reading this would have found for themselves, the very fact we were having a conversation about this has led to a deeper understanding of each other, it has deepened our intimacy and made us feel even more safe and vulnerable with each other.
Nothing seems to have developed from our last 'visitor' other than our conversation and us joining this group, but we're keen to meet other like minded guys to explore our emotions with, and other like minded individuals for social and discussion.
As someone who always thought himself as "open minded" I have been both surprised and encouraged by the fact that we have found a whole new world to explore, and a new way of loving.
Cheers.
Hope your journey in to polyamory is going well! We've been in a three-way relationship (MMM) since February this year and even though it has had more than its fair share of "moments" and even a very close-call of total relationship breakdown, I can safely say that the result now is a wonderful relationship where we are learning so much about each other and loving this journey. Now that all the jealousy issues have passed and we all feel safe with each other (gotten past that "what if he runs off with him" stuff) it's quite wonderful and magical. I never thought anything but monogamy could be this beautiful. Cheers, D.